Cheap Frills

Patti Stanger, if you don’t know who she is well then you just don’t watch Bravo really. I don’t like her show or anything but her guide lines to dating are pretty good and I’m trying to fallow them. Of course this is if marriage is your goal.

Mix it up- If your always dating the same kind of guys then trying mixing it up. You might not think they’re your type but how will you know till you give them a chance?

Data a pair and a spare.
Guy 1- Really like
Guy 2- Maybe
Guy 3- Friend
This one is rather self-expiatory, although I don’t socialize enough to do this.

2-drink max
When your out with someone don’t do more then two drinks. Anymore and you could be getting yourself into some trouble or moving faster then you want to.

No sex for 90 days-6 months
Seems like a hard one, hu? But this works for two reasons. The first being you have time to really get to know that person. The second it’s a bargaining chip, if he really likes you he’ll be willing to wait.

Money matters (good credit, manages money well)
You don’t want a mate who’s bad with money/in debit, right? I mean haven’t you seen those free credit report dot com commercials?

Don’t waste time
If you don’t think the guy is going to work out/isn’t a potential mate then why waste your time? Which leads to the last one

1-year limit
Don’t date a guy for more then year. If he isn’t going to ask you to marry him by then he probably never will. So sit him down and tell him you’re looking for marriage but if he’s not your going to move on. It’s not an ultimatum it’s you putting yourself first.

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